For a long time now, maybe 1-1.5 yrs, my Lanos's AT pan gasket was leaking. Not a drip leak, but it was moist all the way around, basically the rubber gasket turned hard and lost all of its sealing properties. So, I bought a gasket and filter kit at Autozone and went to the junkyard to get the pan as mine was fairly dented from being attacked by various urban obstacles. I found a pan on a Nubira, but it had some sort of rubber plug pierced through the metal that we though would hold, so for $5 we got it.
Well, the first change went without a hitch. The new pan fit perfectly as did the gasket and filter. Test run went smoothly and we were all happy, but owning a Daewoo, I quickly learned all is not as it seems.
Well, we wanted to give it a good test run so I let my dad drive it as I wasn't planning on driving it that night. Two hours later, I get a call from my Dad saying that all of the fluid leaked out, he said through a missing screw hole. Terrified, I hopped in the Honda and "sped" ('cause we all know a Honda can't speed

Well, problems arose again because we didn't know exactly how much ATF to put in so we put in 7 quarts like the manual said. Every once in a while, in the low RPM the car would jerk moderately but when turned OFF and back to ON it went away. So, with every jerk I added a bit of fluid, thinking it was underfilled but it didn't stop jerking. So, thinking that we were seriously low on fluid, I looked in the manual for a check plug and found it. So, today, I parked on level ground and after some serious trouble, managed to get it out. A tsunami of ATF came out through the "Level" hole which was supposed to mark the level at which the ATF should be.
I was totally stumped. Instead of underfilling, it looked as though we overfilled by at least 1.75 Quarts. So, we put the plug back in and went on a test drive expecting the worst, but the car drove smoothly and calmly with no jerking.
Basically my question: Is it possible to get jerking and occasional hesitations to go into gear by overfilling the transmission? Is there any way to be sure that I have enough fluid in the car as I don't really trust the plug. OR worst case scenario, is my car permanently damaged from all the ATF leaking out with the car off?
Please help as I have come to far with this car to see it die due to an American transmission and Bosnian stupidity.
Thanks, Damir.